He that can have patience can have what he will. —Benjamin Franklin
SUN IN CANCER – MOON IN LIBRA
Symbolon Card is The Family – Keyword is Patience
You may feel like you are not appreciated by a member of your own family. There is nothing more humiliating than being ignored by a closed one. You wonder what happened to the happy days. Try to figure out if the cause is outside or inside of you. You will likely find that the answer is both. Maybe you acted in a too overwhelming or too neglecting or too selfish manner. In any case, the family dynamic changes when a family is having a newcomer (a baby, a new spouse, etc.…). While a childless couple has three possible interactions (ParentA-ParentB, ParentA-Couple and ParentB-Couple), they will double with the arrival of a baby: the same three (in a new dynamic) + ParentA-Baby, ParentB-Baby and ParentA-ParentB-Baby. With the arrival of a new family member, the complexity can easily grow out of hand. Handing it requires a very delicate balance of feelings: not too little and not too much. Easier said than done. If for any reason, things don’t change, give it more time hoping either for a readjustment or a new third way. You cannot change anybody else forcefully and your only ally is patience. How you manage the waiting time is the only thing in your control for now.